Every Breath You Take, and Every Move They Make-Calls to Communicate
Many parents struggle to find a natural way to talk to their children about
what is happening to them and how they are feeling. Kids respond differently
to the subject of romance and sex and there isn't any one right way to react to
their questions or situations. The right way will be what feels best for you
and your family. Use your own teenage years and what you found helpful during
that time to guide you in your discussions.
Parents might seek out benign ways to raise topics. Listen to what your
children want to know. Just because your child doesn’t bring it up to you, does
not mean that they are not interested in such subjects. Find a way to bring the topic
up yourself-use the news, songs, television programs, etc., to start the discussion if
you don’t feel comfortable being direct.
You also might want to talk to some of the parents of your children’s
friends. It will give you the opportunity to share your values and obtain
support from one another without breaking confidentiality with your own child.
